Stop going back to the same people who keeps hurting you.

You remove them for a purpose. Yet they may keep knocking at the door, but you don’t have to keep opening it. Every time you do, they keep hurting and stacking you behind.

You deserve to be better and treated with respect. Though, no one is perfect but people who hurt you all the time never give you the chance to grow and improve on yourself.

The time has now come to let go of the people and things that do not make you happy. Dear self, I know you more than anyone else, love me and believe in me.

You must accept great things before you can achieve them. You have to believe in yourself when no one else does.

Napoleon Hill once said, “whatever the mind of a man perceives and conceives it can achieve” and biology also says “after sexual intercourse, 200-300million of sperms are deposited by the man. Only 300-500 actually reach the site.

These sperms swim upwards within tract to meet with the ovum. And out of the 300 who may manage to reach the egg, only one fertilizes the egg. In this case, the winning one was you” you run a race with no eyes, legs, body and with no certificate and yet, you won.

What make you feel that you’ll lose now? Now you have eyes, ears, hands, legs, a certificate, a plan and a vision. You didn’t give up on day one so you can’t give up now. Giving up now is an insult to yourself and your creator.

It doesn’t matter what you see now, always remember that you’re a winner. Enough is enough. Let go of the people who continuously down look your worth.

Take a stand, speak out for yourself and be strong. Throughout your life, people will treat you poorly and disrespect you for no reason.

Learn to say enough of it is enough. Stop looking for others approval, if it doesn’t come naturally, it may never come at all. Accepting yourself means allowing you to be treated better. If they didn’t make you, they can’t break you.









Hard work and success goes hand in hand because life is designed to be tough.

Success doesn’t come on a silver platter, which means that people have to keep trying to succeed in actual sense there are so many challenges in life that only hard working people can overcome them.

This explains why there are few successful people in the world today.

Some of the things that one must do for them to be able to become successful include going through the planning process and taking risks to become that successful person you’ve always dreamt of. One must have the right attitude or mindsets about their visions.

Unless you commit yourself to the course, it is impossible for one to engage in such things.

Nevertheless, many people would rather give up than trying. Precisely, hard work is a necessity for every individual to be successful in life. In life, there is nothing free and not even in the free town.

It takes toiling, struggling, perseverance and commitment as well as hard work  before one can be successful. Because life surrenders only to those who dared to commit themselves to make a difference. Though life is tough but hard work will always defeat the most intelligent person who chooses not to work.





Life is tough, life is painful, life is sweet, life can be rude and life can be unforgiving. Sometimes things may go wrong but if I have to put together in one word the difference between the average and the successful is  “Attitude”  is what you put up when all others doubt you.

Attitude is everything in life. Your attitude determines your acceleration in life. Attitude is all you’ve got. Whether you rise or fall, everything is based upon your attitude. The attitude to keep going when everyone give up on you, the attitudes to keep pushing when all others doubt you. The attitude to keep climbing the ladder of success when everyone else give up on theirs.

The attitude to keep believing when all others doubt it. The attitude to give in your all when all others give up. Albert Einstein once said “I am thankful to all those who said NO to me it’s because of them I did it myself”. There is no maximum satisfaction in giving up.

Though people may not believe in your vision, they may not see the way you see things so don’t get worried when they give up on you. When they tell you it cannot be done because it hasn’t been done before just tell them there wouldn’t be any plus neither in giving up on yourself. Instead of working on your muscles, work on your attitude because your attitude is what will take you to the very top of the mountain.

There is a traditional proverbs that reads “if there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you know harm”. Work on yourself and your attitude more than anything else because your attitude determines your altitude.


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